Searches for ‘how to stop stress’ skyrocket 920% hours into Blue Monday 

New analysis reveals that UK searches for ‘how to stop stress’ increased 920% just hours into Blue Monday, which is the name given to what is known as the most depressing day of the year, Monday 16th January, following the Christmas and New Year celebrations that have just passed.  

The lingering stress of the cost-of-living crisis weighs heavily on the shoulders of many, and with temperatures dropping and food prices skyrocketing, it is bound to have an added impact on the stresses of everyday life. Therefore, people up and down the country are looking for tips and tricks to ease and eliminate as much stress as possible.  

CBD experts Simply CBD have revealed some tips that will help encourage stress relaxation and a stress-free routine that you can implement into your weekly routine.  

Searches in the UK for ‘reduce stress’ increased 216% over the past month, proving just how desperate Brits are to find solutions for feelings of overwhelming stress. In fact, searches for ‘is stress normal’ has seen a huge 635% increase over the past month in the UK, showing how concerned people are about stress levels and how they can impact their health. 

Self-care for Blue Monday

Being mindful of your own needs is essential, and focusing on self-care will help reduce stress and anxiety tremendously. Some forms of self-care include maintaining a balanced diet and sustaining a healthy sleep schedule but indulging in pampering is often overlooked.  

Pampering doesn’t have to break the bank. Forget spa days or trips away; you can easily indulge in pampering at home: 

  • Take a hot bath or shower. 
  • Pop on a face mask and read your favourite book – time away from blue light from your phone also helps relax the mind. 
  • Light some candles and listen to a meditation podcast. 
  • Treat yourself to your favourite home-cooked meal (or takeaway if you prefer!). 

Exercise 

Although the thought of exercise can sometimes be exhausting, with long workdays feeling tiring enough, finding the time to get a good workout in can often be the release from a lot of pent-up stress.  

Sometimes getting past the mental barrier of doing physical activity is the only thing holding you back from releasing tension and endorphins, aka the body’s natural painkillers. 

The exercise doesn’t necessarily need to be intense, and there are many options when it comes to fitting in an hour of increased heart rate to beat those blue monday blues: 

  • Go on a walk – Whether with friends, family or just by yourself, getting out for fresh air and moving your body will work wonders. 
  • Take part in a local exercise class – there are many options, such as low-intensity Yoga and Pilates, which are great options if you don’t want to do an intense workout. 
  • Take part in an online exercise class! – if physically leaving the house to exercise fills you with dread, you will be pleased to know there are thousands of online classes and pre-recorded free videos of workouts that you can do in the comfort of your own home. 

Listen to music 

Listening to music gives the brain a total workout, and we all know how vital brain health is. By listening to music, you can: 

  • Reduce blood pressure. 
  • Improve memory. 
  • Reduce anxiety. 
  • Improve sleep quality. 

Not only can it reduce stress, but it can elevate moods and clear the way for emotional expression; this is why it is great that there are so many genres of music to choose from; just pick whatever gets you out of a funk and makes you feel good! 

Experiment with hobbies 

By experimenting with hobbies you might have put on the back burner, you are allowing your body to remind itself of something you enjoy and take pride in. Hobbies are a great distraction and can be the perfect way to relax and forget about the stresses of everyday life.  

If you’re struggling to think of a hobby, it’s never too late to find one! By making a list of all the hobbies you would love to try, you are already one step closer to expanding your knowledge, widening your range of skills, and keeping your brain working and mind off all things stressful. 

Turn the phone off and stay off social media. 

In a world dominated by technology, we have everything at the push of a button, making it hard to imagine life without it, but keeping so up-to-date and caught up on social media can sometimes be exhausting and lead to unhealthy comparisons. 

By turning off your phone or limiting the time spent on social media, you can shut off the constant updates and remain solely focused on other things that might bring you joy. Instead of getting distracted by technology, you could be reading your favourite books, spending time with family and friends, giving yourself a well-deserved pamper or just taking a nap, whatever relieves stress from your day! 

Do you suffer on Blue Monday? Let us know in the comments below.

My spectacular goals for 2023!

I was asked what my goals are for 2023! Here is what I hope to kick off the new year with.

1: Achieving Green Prajaet

I want to achieve my green prajaet in Muay Thai. Last year I couldn’t get the whip kick right, so this year I hope to be second time lucky. I need to train at least 4 times a week which I never did towards the end of the year.

2: Dusting off the ring rust

Getting in the ring again is something that excites me. I went in the ring last year but didn’t put on the best display for an interclub where I was sparring with someone much heavier than myself. I need to lose weight to be guaranteed a match as it’s matched by weight.

3: Lose weight

By losing weight I will be quicker and fitter when it comes to Muay Thai and running. I’m rejoining the gym next week and I will be going to the gym and swimming at least 3 times per week as well as dog walking and training in Muay Thai at least 4 times a week. I tried losing weight last year but lost a few pounds and ended up somehow despite all the exercise I do putting it back on again. I need to seriously look at my diet or a personal trainer if unsuccessful this year.

4: Gain my Google Analytics qualification

I recently passed the beginners certificate and will be completing and passing my Google exams, This is also the year when Google Analytics changes over to GA4 so lots of new learning to do workwise. This is something I looked into years ago and for some reason never completed it.

Let us know what your goals for 2023 are in the comments below!

Getting Back into Fitness After the Christmas Break

After much-needed time to relax with family and friends over Christmas, getting back into your routine in the new year can be quite the challenge, specifically when it comes to working out.

In fact, research shows that one-third of Brits admit to doing no exercise at all in December, so it’s vital to start the preparation early.

However, it doesn’t need to be so difficult – experts at Fitness Volt have highlighted five tips to ease yourself back into a workout routine after the festivities.

Set specific times

Scheduling your workout time is a simple yet effective step.

Getting back into the right frame of mind after the Christmas buzz is just one of the ways you will have to readjust, and it can certainly take its toll on you.

So, without a gym schedule, it’s likely that you will make plenty of excuses to not partake in any exercise. Consider your day-to-day schedule and choose your workout slot based on where you have the most free time – this way, you can mentally prepare yourself as well as avoid any excuses that you are too busy.

Plus, a planned exercise slot will ensure that your workload won’t take over, as it’s a given that you will be getting back into a busy work routine, too.

Don’t overexert yourself

While pushing yourself is usually encouraged in fitness, it’s sensible to not push yourself to the extreme, particularly after some time away from exercise.

Whether it’s weightlifting or cardio, doing too much exercise can lead to overuse injuries including muscle strains and tendon injuries, thus making you a lot less capable of meeting your fitness goals.

After some time off, it’s natural to not be able to lift as heavy or run as far – so it’s crucial to not let it discourage you, as you will soon gain your ability if you stay consistent with your exercise.

As well as this, overdoing it can lead to burnout in the early stages and make you dread a workout as opposed to enjoying it.

If you feel yourself giving up, try to commit to five minutes and finish your workout if you don’t feel capable of doing anymore; but this five-minute rule, it will likely motivate you to do more.

Personalise your workout

Fitness lovers aren’t necessarily all gym-goers. In fact, there are plenty of ways to work out which don’t involve the gym – and this is key for making it an enjoyable part of your routine again. If you’re a nature enthusiast and wish to do more cardio exercises, go for a run – or even a walk – at your local beach, local park, or even around your neighbourhood. Alternatively, if you’re into strength training but don’t enjoy the gym atmosphere, invest in equipment such as dumbbells and kettlebells to work out from the comfort of your own home.

Partner up

Finding a friend with similar fitness goals is beneficial for many reasons, one being that it acts as motivation after some time away.

For the days that you don’t feel like exercising, a fitness partner can motivate you to get ready and get it done – plus, during a workout, your partner can even push you to take it to the next level, such as lifting a slightly heavier weight or increasing the incline setting on the treadmill.

Having a partner can also keep you accountable to stay on track with your fitness plan, and recognise any goals that are yet to be met.

Better yet, it makes it a time to socialise so that you look forward to it more, not to mention your partner can spot you to make your workout safer.

Set short-term goals too

It’s always important to think of the long-term result; doing so allows you to plan your workout and figure out which exercises are best suited to your needs.

However, having only a long-term goal can become frustrating when you aren’t seeing progress straight away, and can even result in you giving up completely – which is especially easy to do when you’re trying to get back into your routine.

Therefore, it’s vital to set goals over shorter timeframes that are manageable, as well as not just focus on your appearance.

For example, you may wish to become stronger, so a short-term goal for the end of a month could be to increase your squat load by 20 kilograms.

A spokesperson from Fitness Volt has commented: “When it comes to Christmas, the last thing that needs to be on our minds is working out – it’s a time that we wish to be spending with family and friends, and it’s important to make the most of that.

However, it can be difficult to find the motivation to get back into it after some time off.

Thankfully, there are simple steps that can increase your ambition again as well as make your workout more enjoyable to ensure that you can stick to your fitness routine in the new year and, as a result, enjoy the Christmas festivities without feeling guilty.”

6 Barriers to Seeking medical advice & treatment

When it comes to looking after our health, statistics reveal that many of us are ignoring the warning signs, don’t know what to look out for, or aren’t checking for them in the first place.

For example, a YouGov survey found that in 2021 at least 1 in 5 women had not checked themselves for signs of breast cancer in the past year.

There is truth to the saying prevention is the best medicine.

Catching serious illnesses early is often one of the best ways to get treatment for and/or manage the illness.

However, it’s clear that there are several barriers that stop people from seeking medical advice and treatment.

This can lead to potentially serious consequences for health, both physical and mental, including delayed diagnosis and worse outcomes.

With some insights from Jonjo Hancock-Fell, at private health cover provider: Westfield Health, let’s take a closer look at some of the reasons why people could be ignoring their symptoms.

1.      Age

With age comes varying attitudes towards illnesses that can cause individuals to not seek out treatment.

One study from Healthspan found that 24% of adults had in the past ignored symptoms because they felt they were too young to worry about potentially serious illnesses.

For older generations, there is also a tendency to take a ‘stiff upper lip’ attitude towards health, which often means not seeking help.

This is particularly true when it comes to mental health. Research from 2020 found that the majority of people over the age of 65 who had experienced depression and anxiety did not seek help because they saw it as something they should just ‘get on with.

2.      Socioeconomic status

Much research has been done into health inequalities in poorer and wealthier areas in the UK, which can often be seen through mortality rates and the types of health conditions.

Another important aspect of this is how it can also impact an individual’s likelihood to go to their doctor with health concerns.

Worries about taking time off for appointments or being unable to work throughout treatment can contribute to this.

Recent research from Nationwide found that 43% of people would put off going to the doctor because of financial concerns, even if they were worried about a serious illness.

3.      Feelings of shame and embarrassment

Another common reason why individuals avoid or delay treatment is because of feelings of shame, embarrassment, or not wanting to be a burden on healthcare providers. 

One recent survey commissioned by Pancreatic Cancer Action found that 27% of people were too embarrassed about their symptoms to seek out treatment.

The same survey also found that 37% of people were worried about wasting a doctor’s time with their concerns.

Research shows that as many as three in five people avoid accessing healthcare because they don’t want to bother the NHS.

4.      Fear of diagnosis

For some individuals, it’s the fear of diagnosis that causes them to ignore their health and thus avoid potentially bad news.

One study revealed nearly 6 in 10 people’s biggest healthcare fear is getting a cancer diagnosis, which could lead to some ignoring symptoms or just not checking for them.  

The fear of diagnosis can lead to denial over health concerns – but this can have terrible consequences.

In the case of most cancers, the difference between detecting it early or at a later stage can be life-changing. For lung cancer, according to Cancer Research UK, 9 in 10 people will survive for at least 1 year when the cancer is detected at its earliest stage. But if it is not found until an advanced stage, this number falls to 2 in 10.

5.      Gender

Gender can also be a contributing factor to delaying treatment, with women more likely to feel like they will be ignored.

In the UK, in 2022, 44% of women reported that they felt like their health concerns weren’t being taken seriously by medical professionals.

The next two main barriers to accessing healthcare were a lack of understanding of women’s lives and experiences (39%) and a lack of understanding of female bodies (34%).

Another survey conducted by the Department of Health and Social Care (DHSC) in 2021 found that 84% of women had experienced feelings of ‘not being listened to by healthcare professionals.

This is a problem that urgently needs addressing, as it may cause some women to downplay their own concerns when it comes to their health.

Common assumptions can also lead to disparities for certain illnesses more commonly associated with men or women.

The same survey from YouGov mentioned earlier found that nearly 70% of men had never checked themselves for signs of breast cancer at all.

This is despite 80% reporting that they were aware they could develop breast cancer.

For trans and gender-diverse people, the picture can be even more worrying.

Current research shows discrimination as a reason individuals ignore their health.

One study from TransActual in 2021 found that 57% of transgender people had delayed seeing or chosen not to see their GP because of fears of transphobia or being refused treatment.

6.      Racial barriers

A recent review led by the University of Manchester into ethnic healthcare inequalities in the UK discovered that people from ethnic minority backgrounds were also delaying treatment due to fears of experiencing racism.

Cultural stigmas can also be a contributing factor to avoiding seeking help. For example, diagnosing dementia early

is hugely important for the patient to be able to plan for their future.

Yet the stigma surrounding mental health is often cited as one of the main reasons why Muslim communities, for example, tend not to seek help for dementia until it reaches a crisis point.

The lack of culturally sensitive services available can be another reason for patients from ethnic backgrounds to feel locked out of healthcare.

What does this mean?

Whatever worries or fears you may be experiencing, they shouldn’t come before your health.

Much work is still needed to improve health services and break down the barriers that are stopping people from accessing healthcare, but help is always available.

Whether through the National Health Service or through private health insurance, don’t bury your head in the sand when it comes to your health.

It can be unpleasant or even scary, but the importance of seeking help if you have concerns about your health cannot be overstated. Doing so can dramatically increase survival rates or improve outcomes.

Discovering a ‘Modern’ Condition: How to Prevent Cyberchondria

Ever felt the urge to open your laptop to check what is causing sudden, mild chest pain?

Ever googled what the symptoms of a serious medical condition are after discovering a small bump somewhere on your body?

With the continuous rise of the internet and with infinite, free information at our fingertips at all times, it is easy to fall into the temptation to start a quick online query.

Indeed, it has been found that 7% of Google’s daily searches are health-related.

Not only that, but when it comes to our online habits, UK residents are now 114% more likely to google health-related terms than they would three years ago.

Some searchers will look for basic information and take what they read with a pinch of salt.

Others, however, will jump from one website to the next, concerned about the list of daunting diagnoses they have stumbled upon.

This is known as cyberchondria, a ‘modern’ condition that can cause a great deal of stress for those suffering from it.

Tobias Alpsten, CEO and founder of my GP, comments: “Although the concept of cyberchondria (self-diagnoses from the internet) is a relatively young term, there is some evidence to support it is a growing concern across the nation.

It is crucial that patients remember to seek advice from their GP if they are concerned in any way, whether this is via a face-to-face appointment or convenient video consultation to allay any concerns caused by online searching.”

Here, we explore the ins and outs of cyberchondria, while also providing tips on how to both manage and prevent it.

What is cyberchondria?

In a nutshell, cyberchondria is a disorder where a person excessively searches for health-related information online.

But rather than finding comfort and relief from the answers they find on the internet, they self-diagnose with a concerning condition and end up worrying even more.

In fact, cyberchondriacs will read a list of potential explanations for their discomfort and only believe the worst-case scenarios.

It is in some ways similar to hypochondria, and, as mentioned, it can arouse strong feelings of anxiety.   

Journals first started talking about cyberchondria at the beginning of the 21st century, as an increasing number of patients were taking print-outs of intimidating diagnoses to GP clinics.

With the advancement of technology, this condition has gradually begun to escalate.

As of 2016, 68% of British adults consulted “Dr Google” to diagnose themselves, whether every few months or on a regular basis.

By causing unnecessary health fears in cyberchondriac patients, this condition is costing the British healthcare system roughly £56m each year in avoidable appointments and exams.

This is because, while cyberchondriacs may have a genuine physical ailment, the disorder leads them to believe that their condition is far more serious than it perhaps is.

Behind the scenes: what causes cyberchondria?

There are many reasons why people may experience serious anxiety when looking up medical information online. In this respect, there is no exact science to determine what spurs cyberchondria, but here are a few risk factors:

  • Recent experience of severe illness – If you have a medical history of developing serious conditions, even if you have recovered from them, you may be more inclined to overly worry when new symptoms emerge. Other unhappy experiences, such as the passing of a family member or knowing someone who has been diagnosed with a life-changing illness, can spark more concerns about your own health too.
  • Free misinformation and sad stories on social media – When browsing and scrolling through social media, you may happen to read a sad story about someone dealing with a serious condition. Alternatively, you may visit unreliable websites with sensationalistic headlines about worrying symptoms that aim to scare you and lure you into clicking on their page. Often these websites are not fact-checked. Unfortunately, you are likely to retain this information, which may later have an impact on your health concerns. In fact, due to evolutionary survival purposes, our brain tends to notice and remember the negatives more than the positives.
  • Low self-esteem – Low self-esteem is also identified as one of the most prominent causes of cyberchondria. This is because low self-esteem is a ‘vulnerability’ in itself and is often viewed as a risk factor for internet-related problems, including excessive online time and addiction.
  • Inclined to worry – Are you a natural worrier? Googling medical information could cause you extra stress. People suffering from anxiety and depression are more likely to worry as well, which suggests that cyberchondria is more likely to appear in people with a tendency to ruminate.

Overcoming needless health concerns

Pinpointing what spurs cyberchondria is no easy task.

But if your heart races when googling your symptoms or you spend hours scrolling through several online portals, there are some useful remedies to give you much-needed peace of mind.

  • Stay offline – One of the most obvious steps you can take to keep your cyberchondria under control is to limit your Google searches. Staying offline will protect you against misleading information that will do you more harm than good. Otherwise, make sure to visit credible websites and consult valid sources which you know have been fact-checked. This way, you will avoid stumbling upon menacing, daunting, and unfounded diagnoses.
  • Book regular GP appointments – This is one of the best ways to minimise your worries. By scheduling regular appointments with your doctor, you will be able to benefit from general check-ups, receive a trusted GP prescription, and direct to a professional whatever concerns you may have. This will spare you from needless preoccupations and nip the problem in the bud whenever you are experiencing discomfort.
  • Enjoy a balanced lifestyle – Embracing a healthy, balanced lifestyle is a great solution to manage your cyberchondria. By getting plenty of rest, eating healthy, and exercising on a regular basis, you can actively tackle sentiments of stress and anxiety. Having a balanced routine and eating nutritious food can make you feel assured that you are doing all you can to prevent unwanted illnesses.
  • Meditation – If you are overly concerned about your symptoms, take some time to breathe, relax, and meditate. This will help you recollect your thoughts and find some lucidity to better assess the situation. Ultimately, meditation can quieten your anxiety and calm you down if you are feeling overwhelmed.

With a smartphone or laptop always within reach, the temptation to ask them personal health questions is difficult to escape.

However, some findings can raise a few eyebrows, and may even trouble people prone to stress and anxiety with unfounded medical suggestions.    

From bad medical experiences to low self-esteem, there are several different reasons for which one may develop cyberchondria.

But through meditation, a healthy lifestyle, booking regular check-ups and staying offline, there are many effective ways to tackle the condition and alleviate your worries.

ADHD is searched for more often than depression and anxiety, new study finds 

ADHD is searched for more frequently than depression and anxiety, according to a new study that analysed search data for common health concerns in the UK. 

The research, which was conducted by the team at Key Opinion Leaders, examined which health concerns were the most searched for in the UK, by combining Google searches for common health concerns with searches for each health concern’s symptoms as well as treatment. 

They found that Google searches for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) were significantly higher than that for the common mental health concerns, anxiety, and depression. 

Over the past 12 months, there were 335,200 combined searches each month for ADHD, ADHD symptoms, and ADHD treatment on average in the UK. Equivalent searches for anxiety, anxiety symptoms, and anxiety treatment totalled 179,500 monthly searches, while searches for depression proved to be even lower, at 149,500 searches per month on average. 

Health concern ‘Health concern’ monthly searches ‘Health concern + symptoms’ monthly searches ‘Health concern + treatment’ monthly searches Total monthly searches 
Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) 187,700 144,100 3,400 335,200 
Anxiety 102,000 73,000 4,500 179,500 
Depression 98,000 50,000 1,500 149,500 

These combined searches for ADHD were found to be 86.7% higher on average than equivalent searches for anxiety, and a staggering 124.2% higher than searches for depression. 

In fact, across the three search variations, the only time ADHD didn’t come top was ‘ADHD treatment’, which received slightly fewer searches than ‘anxiety treatment’. 

Is ADHD on the rise, or are we simply becoming more informed? 

Key Opinion Leaders spoke with Educational Psychologist, Dr Kavita Solder, about possible explanations behind this apparent increase in ADHD-related search queries.

“There has been a rise in diagnoses of ADHD amongst children and adults in recent years, in part due to the rise in people’s awareness of the label,” Dr Solder says.

“Amongst the general population, with the help of social media, there has been a push towards raising awareness of mental health and associated conditions. In the past, a diagnosis of ADHD often had a negative stigma attached to it. Thankfully there has been a shift in attitude, most noticeably with younger generations and their acceptance to embrace difference.” 

Could short-form content be affecting our attention span? 

Dr Solder goes on to add, “Platforms such as TikTok and the reels function on Instagram, promote time-limited videos encouraging young people to concentrate for short periods. It also enables them to swipe endlessly through videos should the one they are watching not capture their attention.

“Research has suggested that young people’s development of attention is shifting, and not necessarily for the worse. Unlike older generations that might have watched more lengthy television programs with limit over choice, young people have a vast amount of entertainment at their fingertips through smartphones and tablets. Therefore, we are becoming better accustomed to switching our attention between things.

“To use a technology analogy, our brain is adapting to tend to multiple items, switching between tabs and windows instantaneously. So whilst the attention span may be shortening, there are advancements being made in multi-faceted attention.

“People have become increasingly concerned with their noticeably short attention spans and with medications such as Methylphenidate more readily available, and in some cases even encouraged on social media platforms, adolescents and adults are seeking advice, intervention, and diagnosis more than ever.” 

Which are the UK’s most searched health concerns?

ADHD ranked as the third most searched-for health concern in the UK, behind COVID-19 and Norovirus. For comparison, ‘anxiety’ ranked 18th and ‘depression’ ranked 30th. The UK’s ten most searched-for health concerns are listed below: 

The UK’s 10 most searched-for health concerns

Health concern Health concern searches (UK) Health concern + symptoms searches (UK) Health concern + treatment searches (UK) Total monthly searches (UK) 
COVID-19 1,206,000 994,000 9,700 2,209,700 
2. Norovirus 491,000 38,000 3,400 532,400 
3. Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) 187,700 144,100 3,400 335,200 
4. Chicken pox 283,000 24,000 15,000 322,000 
5. Shingles 264,000 39,000 9,600 312,600 
6. Tonsillitis 247,000 37,000 14,000 298,000 
7. Fibromyalgia 202,000 32,000 4,400 238,400 
8. Irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) 117,000 99,900 20,800 237,700 
9. Monkey pox 165,000 55,000 900 220,900 
10. Multiple sclerosis (MS) 162,000 50,800 2,600 215,400 

 

 

 

Health concern ‘Health concern’ monthly searches ‘Health concern + symptoms’ monthly searches ‘Health concern + treatment’ monthly searches Total monthly searches 
Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) 187,700 144,100 3,400 335,200 
Anxiety 102,000 73,000 4,500 179,500 
Depression 98,000 50,000 1,500 149,500 

Buddybox review from the Blurt Foundation

This Autumn I decided to treat myself to a Buddybox as I was starting to feel a little low and needed a pick me up.

I have been following The Blurt Foundation and their social media posts for a few years and decided to see whether their Buddyboxes are good value for money.

I ordered the October Buddybox and received it at the beginning of the month.

Here’s what was inside:

A marshmallow vegan hot chocolate

There’s nothing quite like hot chocolate and marshmallows on a cold and wet Autumn evening.

A 2023 Calendar

Handy for circling important dates, however, there is no space for writing things in. It would have been better if we could jot down things in the diary.

Lavender pillow spray

I tried this out and it helps me sleep much better as I love the smell of lavender.

A Blurt Foundation Zine

This is a mini magazine with tips on Acts of comfort for when we’re feeling vulnerable and comforting reminders for wonky days.

Jar of comfort cards

Comfort cards are great messages when you’re feeling a little under the weather and you need to hear some positive messages.

A body warmer

This is ideal now the morning and evenings are cooler and wetter. Keeping warm and snug can help you feel a little brighter, especially on days when you’re feeling low.

My Verdict

So, what was the verdict?

Would I order a Buddybox again? Yes! Do I recommend it? Yes!

At £21.50 for the standard Buddybox, I think it’s great value for money and a lovely surprise for the person receiving it. If you were to add up the items together you would definitely find it worth the money.

I have to say I also love the way in which this box is presented with the picture on the box and the colour option on the other side.

Have you ordered a Buddybox before, either for yourself or for a friend? Comment below and tell me your Buddybox story

UK Employers Recognise the Signs and Symptoms of Burnout

Research shows that employee burnout has steadily risen by 17% since 2020.

People no longer want the archaic working model, actively looking for roles where workplace well-being is prioritised, and more flexibility exists because they’re putting their mental health first.

 Research from Deloitte has revealed the cost of poor mental health to UK employers has increased to a staggering £56 billion.

 A significant part of the business cost is due to reduced productivity caused by employees who are unwell but still come to work, known as presenteeism.

Burnout goes way beyond a buzzword.

 It is impacting businesses on an unprecedented level.

Especially financially, absence due to poor mental health costs employers twice as much as that relating to physical health.

A recent report from Westfield Health found that 59% of respondents said their mental health was driving them to find a new role.

Striking the balance between a healthy, happy workplace and lifestyle for employees has never been more important for businesses.

What is burnout, and how can you recognise the signs and symptoms?

People who find work and the workplace difficult to manage may be at a higher risk of burnout.

Burnout can leave them feeling empty, worn out and unable to handle the weight of life’s obligations.

While burnout is not deemed a psychological disorder, it should still be taken seriously.

Here are three ways to recognise employee burnout:

  1. Cynical disposition

No one loves their job 100% of the time, and some cynicism is natural.

However, if someone is displaying an increased negative outlook both in terms of the work itself and towards their colleagues, this could be a sign of burnout, especially if their normal disposition is usually upbeat.

 It could be that they’re displaying signs of more irritability than usual or are unable to accept feedback.

  • Performance and productivity

Employees suffering from burnout may have been less engaged with their work than normal.

They may feel as though they can’t get anything right and show signs of frustration.

Many people feel unable to manage their frustration and stress levels at work, leading to decreased productivity and, in turn, poorer quality of work.

  • Detachment

When an employee is experiencing burnout, it can be very difficult for them to feel like they are part of a team, especially if their workload is unmanageable.

Isolation may set in, and they may feel they cannot participate in company activities because that will impact their work, leaving them experiencing more stress and anxiety.

The longer this is the case, the more detached from the business they will feel.

Knowing which work-related pressures trigger burnout and what to avoid as a manager can be most helpful.

Here are some of the key causes of burnout:

  • Lack of support from their manager and team
  • Uncertain or excessive expectations
  • A toxic environment
  • Feeling unvalued
  • Pressure to be online/available constantly
  • Being micromanaged

What can you do to help?

The first thing you should do is be aware and acknowledge that your employee is struggling. Start the conversation – they may feel too stressed or anxious to ask for help, so it’s up to you to look out for the signs and offer help and support.

 Be empathetic, as feeling understood at work is crucial in their recovery.

Don’t vilify them for being unable to cope; instead, listen to what they need and recognise the areas where you can help immediately alleviate some of the pressure.

Here are some of the practical ways to offer support:

  1. Check-in with them, but not in a ‘monitoring’ sense, as that will only add to their stress. Drop them a line to see how they are and if they can manage their workload daily.
  2. If your company has mental health support services, ensure they know how to access them and are available to help.
  3. Encourage them to take some time off to relax and reset. Be flexible with their working hours to allow for their current needs.
  4. Delegate their workload across the team to take some of the pressure off. Avoid overwhelming them with projects you know will be highly stressful.
  5. Be human. Yes, it’s work but remembers, we can all experience burnout at any level. They need to feel like a person, not a number.

Preventing burnout

Naturally, avoiding the causes and circumstances that could lead to burnout is the greatest way to safeguard employees’ mental health.

 Although doing so might necessitate a total change in your business’ culture, it is vital to foster a nurturing and supportive workplace for your team.

Investing in your people is paramount to your company’s success and profitability.

 Research shows that every £1 you invest in employee well-being sees a £5.30 return. A team who feels valued and supported with a work-life and well-being balance is a happier team and, in return, will be far less likely to leave.

So, if you’ve noticed burnout amongst your colleagues, maybe it’s time for a culture shift.  

Coping with loss and grief

Over the past 3 years, I’ve been dealing with loss and grief just like much of the UK due to the pandemic and, more recently, the death of the Queen.

Since the lockdown in 2020, everything has gone downhill, and I don’t feel I have achieved anything on my blogs or on a personal level.

In July 2020, we lost my sister’s dog Beanie; in February 2021, we lost our Guinea pig; in April the same year, I lost someone who was like a sister to me and in June this year, I lost my best friend, my jack Russell, Winston, who was 17 years old.

I’ve been dealing with this by attending the gym, swimming and doing Muay Thai. Recently we were thrown out of our local gym in Bodmin, so I have been limited to just two weekly sessions, an hour from where I live. I also wasn’t good enough to grade, so I will have to wait to achieve my green prajaet until at least Christmas.

I have started yoga to become more flexible and improve my appalling balance for Muay Thai. Despite doing all this exercise, I have failed to lose weight, so my speed hasn’t improved much. It looks like I will never represent the club and fight as I head into 2023 and become 40.

I haven’t seen my closest friend for a few years as she lives over an hour away and has been busy with work and life, but I hope to see her before Christmas.

My medication is also fucked up because I didn’t get it in quick enough because of the bank holiday for the Queen’s funeral. I finally received most of my meds this week, but my mood stabiliser is still missing!

When I ring and ask for my meds, they put me through to another number that keeps ringing until it cuts me off!

I’m not sure I can take any more grief and loss, so I will keep positive and try to achieve more, but right now, it feels like I’m failing, and my brain doesn’t work well without my mood stabiliser.

Expert reveals how to get the perfect night’s sleep

Seasonal shifts can cause sleeping patterns to fly off the rails, which can cause a lack of energy, reduced concentration and many other inconveniences. Luckily, there are many ways you can get this essential function back on track.

Medical cannabis experts at Leafwell have revealed a list of top tips on how to get the perfect night’s sleep during the summer months.

How does the temperature and summertime affect the lack of sleep?

A few reasons why temperature affects how we sleep and how many hours we get of it at night.

Comfort is the main issue when it comes causes of irregular sleeping patterns due to the inability to find comfortable positions, and ensuring your body temperature is right inevitably affects how relaxed you drift off.

Another essential component of comfort when sleeping is room temperature which shares a strong relationship with body temperature; this is why many struggle to find the perfect match for the perfect level.

The second issue when it comes to sleeping in the summertime is delayed melatonin release when melatonin secretion ends for our bodies to prepare for the next day.

In the summer, our bodies are exposed to extra sunlight in comparison to what it does in the winter months, meaning that a more extended period of light ends up suppressing the melatonin production in our bodies; this is the hormone that signals our brain and body that it is ready to sleep.

Top tips on how to make sure you get a great night’s sleep:

Reduce the use of blue light exposure in the evenings

Dimly lit environments are ideal when settling down for the evening, and without this lower light, melatonin will struggle to release, causing us difficulty when it comes to sleeping.

It is suggested to avoid soaking up the sun and staying clear from using artificial lighting and electronic devices (blue light) for a few hours before you go to sleep – but if putting the phone down seems almost impossible, it could be beneficial to invest in blue light glasses which filters out blue and green wavelengths which keep the brain active.  

Try using CBD

Struggling to relax and fall asleep is nothing new and is an overall experience. Lack of sleep and disturbance to a regular pattern can cause stress and anxiety, so with many struggling with this nightly problem, it is comforting to know there are ways in which you can reduce these anxious feelings.

Not only could CBD support healthy wake and sleep cycles, but introducing CBD into your daily routines could help reduce stress and anxiety considerably due to the substance activating serotonin receptors in the brain, alleviating tension and initiating relaxation.

Studies like the Cannabidiol in Anxiety and Sleep: A Large Case Series showed that adults taking part saw a significant decrease in anxiety and sleep within the first month of use (72.2%), proving just how beneficial the natural substance can be.

A spokesperson for Leafwell commented:

‘Alongside eating well and exercising, getting a good night’s sleep is one of the most important things you can do to keep healthy. Medical cannabis – and cannabinoids and terpenes like THC, CBN, and myrcene in particular – is well-noted for its sedative properties and can aid a person’s sleep.’

While there are many reasons why medical cannabis could aid in a healthy sleep cycle, one of the most important benefits of medical cannabis is that it is also a great alternative to sleeping sedatives that are highly addictive.”

Relax and clear your mind in the evening

The stresses of day-to-day life tend to stick with us even through to bedtime, making it harder to stop our minds from racing and shaking the everlasting feeling of worry.

That is why unwinding before bed can have many benefits, like preventing anxiety and depression and lowering the risk of heart attacks.

Therefore, it is essential to figure out the right way in which your body responds to relaxation by trying out a few methods:

  • Take a hot bath/shower – Along with being a fantastic way to ease muscle tension, taking a hot bath or shower the hot water will stimulate blood flow in our hands and feet, causing heat to leave the body quickly, therefore, allowing the body to cool down and be the perfect temperature for sleeping.
  • Unwind without a screen – Taking around an hour before bedtime to reduce any activity is a great way to make sure you can drift off without distractions by the time you are ready to sleep. Turning off your phone, laptop or TV during this time also eliminates artificial light.