Buddybox review from the Blurt Foundation

This Autumn I decided to treat myself to a Buddybox as I was starting to feel a little low and needed a pick me up.

I have been following The Blurt Foundation and their social media posts for a few years and decided to see whether their Buddyboxes are good value for money.

I ordered the October Buddybox and received it at the beginning of the month.

Here’s what was inside:

A marshmallow vegan hot chocolate

There’s nothing quite like hot chocolate and marshmallows on a cold and wet Autumn evening.

A 2023 Calendar

Handy for circling important dates, however, there is no space for writing things in. It would have been better if we could jot down things in the diary.

Lavender pillow spray

I tried this out and it helps me sleep much better as I love the smell of lavender.

A Blurt Foundation Zine

This is a mini magazine with tips on Acts of comfort for when we’re feeling vulnerable and comforting reminders for wonky days.

Jar of comfort cards

Comfort cards are great messages when you’re feeling a little under the weather and you need to hear some positive messages.

A body warmer

This is ideal now the morning and evenings are cooler and wetter. Keeping warm and snug can help you feel a little brighter, especially on days when you’re feeling low.

My Verdict

So, what was the verdict?

Would I order a Buddybox again? Yes! Do I recommend it? Yes!

At £21.50 for the standard Buddybox, I think it’s great value for money and a lovely surprise for the person receiving it. If you were to add up the items together you would definitely find it worth the money.

I have to say I also love the way in which this box is presented with the picture on the box and the colour option on the other side.

Have you ordered a Buddybox before, either for yourself or for a friend? Comment below and tell me your Buddybox story

Review of Manic Man with bipolar

Manic Man follows the life of a young man called Jason Wegner, who was diagnosed with bipolar.

He recalls the time when his parents had called the paramedics to take him to the hospital.

The book shifts back to build up to when he started to get hypomanic, which grew into mania.

The book captures the big ideas that come with mania, excessive spending, and lack of sleep.

While manic, the author was writing a lot, including texting and posting on social media and making a lot of audio recordings. 

There are pictures of some of his writing inside the book and on the cover. Together, these different pieces give the reader excellent insights into mania.

The author describes how his friends and family were getting concerned about him and wondering if he was on drugs, but he didn’t have any insight into the fact that he was unwell.

About three-quarters of the way through the book, the author was hospitalized. 

He writes about appealing his admission to the hospital and includes quotes from the panel’s written reasons for keeping him detained. 

It’s pretty interesting to see that side of the story, along with excerpts from doctors’ notes in his chart.

The book then jumps to recovery, interrupted by a depressive episode. Jason worked closely with his psychologist Dr Bernes, who wrote the book’s foreword, and together they developed a holistic program for recovery that they called the Octagon of Life. 

Jason’s therapy included elements like exercise, nutrition, and exposure therapy (including writing this book) to process the traumatic experience of mania. Together, the eight features of the Octagon of Life allowed the author to rebuild his life and achieve post-traumatic growth, and the book takes a hopeful stance that recovery is possible. The author is now pursuing a career as a teacher.

The author shows a willingness to be vulnerable and open about his experiences, even those experiences that might be considered embarrassing. Manic Man presents a very genuine picture of what it’s like to be manic. I think this book would be a good choice for anyone looking to gain a better understanding of bipolar mania, and particularly for anyone who’s been newly diagnosed.

Manic Man is available on Amazon (affiliate link).

A Mind Of Their Own Reviewed

A Mind Of Their Own is a book about children’s mental health increasing from 2017 to 2020.

Today young people feel more pressured with exams and hobbies in a competitive world to be the best.

Parents and other relatives need to take the pressure off their children and encourage them instead of pushing them too hard and making them feel like a failure if they aren’t very good at something or as good as their fellow peers.

Katherine Hill looks at how positive words can influence thinking and behaviour and how labels can damage children.

Technology also plays a major factor for both adults and children in today’s digital world, where everyone is always online and many of us communicating via social media apps.

Years ago, we could escape from school bullies by going home.

Cyberbullying has now become a problem where children are bullied in their own homes without leaving their homes.

Social networking sites such as Facebook are well documented for bullying children online with some children committing suicide.

Katharine looks at the impact of COVID19 on our children as they have missed out on schooling, seeing their friends.

Some children are better off being homeschooled and enjoy it more than mainstream schooling.

There are also children who can’t work at home and need to go to school and socialise with their friends.

Homeschooled or not, children need to be able to feel confident when communicating with others in the outside world, without feeling anxious about catching a deadly disease every time they leave their homes.

The most important thing we can do for our children is to love and support them. We need to provide a safe space for our families for their growth and development.

A Mind Of Their Own is a powerful read. Each chapter includes personal stories and finishes with action points and activities.

I would recommend this book to all parents and other family members.

How did your children cope during the pandemic? Let us know in the comment section below or on our social media sites.

How useful is Fearne Cotton’s Happy?

Several Looneychick Blog readers wanted me to review Fearne Cotton’s Happy.

Having listened to Fearne Cottons podcasts and many people raving about her books, I decided to see what the fuss was about.

I liked the little exercises and illustrations in the book.

However, it doesn’t offer anything new regarding mental health solutions, and everyone is different.

I purchased Happy off Amazon for £3, and it was definitely worth the read.

Still, I’ve reviewed many better books than this as Fearne’s issues are a lot different from my own experiences.

This book touches on essential topics such as eating healthily, making time for yourself, meditating, yoga and taking time off technology.

The exercises are probably more helpful for people who suffer from mild depression and anxiety.

I’m not sure if adding celebrity comments help because they have the money and facilities that everyday people don’t have access to.

Unfortunately, mental health is still taboo, and nothing helps unless you have money, and I’m talking thousands of pounds to access clinics.

Even getting a private therapist doesn’t make a difference. I saw a Bupa Phycologist for a year, but that person just took notes and could still diagnose me.

The truth is more research is needed on this subject.

I also still get judged on how my mental health impacts me and its effect on my past.

Many people have unfriended me due to this.

No matter how hard I apologise or try to explain, I’m never forgiven or believed.

Fearne is lucky to help a partner, kids and friends who support her.

For example, more in-depth mental health issues, schizophrenia and bipolar, would need to go deeper into the things Fearne mentions in the book.

Some of the best points in this book are the great yoga poses for beginners and healthy salad recipes.

Have you read Fearne Cotton’s Happy? What are your thoughts on this and if you haven’t read the book will you be reading it?

Reviewing Teen Calm’s Self-Care awesome Box

Teen Calm self-Care Box

As a mental health sufferer, I was delighted when Teen Calm’s Self-Care monthly box of goodies arrived having neglected my own personal care regime.

Teen Calm offers monthly and every three-month subscription boxes for both male and female anxious teens full of self-care items.

This is the first-ever box I have reviewed, and being a thirty-something year old I found that the price was a little steep at £25 a month or £75 every three months, and that’s not including postage. Postage costs depend on the type of subscription you choose.

When opening Teen Calm’s Self-Care box, I picked out a card that I will be keeping on the office’s notice board. It’s a good idea to look at positive messages throughout the day.

The next thing to pull out is 54 ways to ease the anxious mind cards. My 10-year old niece and I will be looking at these more closely when we have our chill time in the cabin. Watch out for a blog post on these at a later date.

I then picked out Aromatherapy bath potion sea salt infused with a blend of pure essential oils. This is the perfect thing to use after a long day at school or work.

Unfortunately, I don’t have a bath, so a pity its not or bath and showers. My niece will be enjoying a long relaxing soak in a tub after forest school. I usually have showers to help me relax after a long day.

The handmade lavender soap was a lovely idea. The soap is made by a company called Grace’s Generation.

The worry doll was one of the best surprises as I’ve never seen or heard of these before. The story of the original Guatemalan worry people, apparently you put the doll under your pillow when you go to bed, and in the morning, your worries will disappear. Not sure it works, but I love the doll and the idea.

One of the best items inside the box has to be The Teenage Guide to Stress book, which briefly covers essential teenage issues such as friendships, exams, education, sex, depression, drink and drugs and eating disorders. If a book like this had been available when I was younger, I would have purchased it. I’m happy for my niece to read this as she needs to be aware of these life problems.

This book is available to purchase from £6.55 on Amazon.

The final item I picked out of the box was a pack of love hearts that I will share with my niece as a bit of a treat.

Teen Calm boxes are definitely great for teens as well as young adults. I would love to receive one of these from a family member or friend when I’m feeling low.

Teen Calm’s boxes make me smile as they are packed with full-size random products with fun, exciting new things to try.

I would also say you get more than your money’s worth in this box, and not many other packages have full-size products. These make lovely surprise gifts for pre-teens, teenagers or adults especially during lockdown or other stressful periods such as exams etc.

If you are reading this, but you don’t have a chronic illness or mental health. Self-Care is for absolutely anyone. Self-care is essential to practice daily.

Let us know if you or your teenagers practice self-care?

Reviewing The CBT Good Habit Journal

The CBT Good Habit Journal was the first book I read based on cognitive behaviour therapy.I received it for Christmas two years ago and have decided to share my thoughts and feelings on this.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy model

CBT is a talking therapy that can help you change the ways in which you think to help you deal with overwhelming problems in a positive way by breaking down them down.

The exercises can make you think about your future and the goals you want to achieve in life.

I’m going to revisit CBT and fill in some of the challenging tasks within this book with my therapist. It will be interesting to see if my goals are the same as they were two years ago and in a year from now.

I have had 6 CBT sessions with Outlook SouthWest, but unfortunately, I felt more work was needed.

I also had a private counsellor who I used as recommended by my previous company healthcare plan. After I left the company, I continued to work with the same psychologist privately until she became ill.

My doctor contacted CMHS (The Community Mental Health Team), who also gave me six CAT therapy sessions before discharging me due to lack of funds, then again when I moved areas.

For those of you who are a bit unsure about CBT, I would suggest buying this book and working through the exercises alone or with a therapist.

I’m going to work with a therapist because I’m struggling to do some exercises alone.

I’m currently working on knowing myself and looking at how I think and learning different ways to cope with these thoughts.

Keeping a journal is a great way to express your thoughts and feelings and to get to know yourself better.

Getting your thoughts and goals down on paper helps release stress, solve problems, and turn those dreams into reality.

Since using The CBT Good Habit Journal, I’ve learnt how to communicate and look at things differently. I’ve also engaging better with CBT this time around than previously.

It can take a while to sink in as habits are often grained deep inside the mind from a young age.

This journal has made me think carefully about how I come across and how I can be a better version of myself, and how I can interact and think differently.

Bring me to Light by Eleanor Segall

I love the way Bring me to Light was written with Eleanor highlighting her Jewish family roots and understanding her past.

Eleanor describes her experience at school is similar to mine, which people can also relate to this.

Being bullied is something that even the most famous people can relate to.

I had an uneven jaw and big teeth and was called names such as “Goof Troop” a lot, and as a result of this, I ended up learning to fight back and defend myself.

I became an angry individual, and this still haunts me to this day.

Throughout the book, Eleanor refers to her social anxiety which is something that I also can relate to.

Eleanor describes this as “Two Yous” which is how it can feel like one minute you are fighting for attention with the other person you can also see and the next you want the world to swallow you up and for everyone in it to leave you alone.

One of the only experiences that I haven’t had is being hospitalised for my episodes, which I am grateful for.

On the other hand, Eleanor appears to have had a lot more NHS help and support for her bipolar than I have.

Different parts of the UK offer various treatments, and this is where mental health funding and support aren’t consistent or joined up.

The book is a must-read for anyone with or without mental health issues.

What I love the most about “Bring me to Light” is the fact that Eleanor goes into great detail about her illness and how she strived to overcome this and become the ambassador and writer she is today.

Even with her relapses, she has achieved so much, and that’s something I would love to be able to achieve myself.

The book is an honest account of a young woman who has been through a lot, and I have found myself inspired by the fact that painful experiences can turn into a positive.

“Happiful “the Mental Health magazine review

Happiful mental health magazine cover

As someone who suffers from mental health problems, I decided to write a mental health magazine review on Happiful.

Happiful is the first mental health magazine I have ever read, so here are my thoughts on this magazine.

This mental health magazine is the UK’s monthly lifestyle magazine devoted to mental health.

The magazine’s front page looks bright and cheery featuring a picture of the author and mental health ambassador, Bryony Gordan.

The colours also blend in well with a mixture of white, black, and dark pink text, a pastel pink background, and a shade of pastel green.

The magazine comprises 90 compelling pages of content including; celebrity features, real-life stories, relationships, lifestyle, wellbeing,  Happiful Hacks, The uplift and Food and Drink.

My favourite articles in the July print edition include, how to have a network with social anxiety, the interview with Carrie Hope Fletcher and the page on apps that help with anxiety.

I like the variety of content in this magazine and the fact that it has something for everyone regarding their mental health and if they suffer from issues.

The price is a little steep at £4 because some people who have mental health issues cannot work. Therefore £4 for a magazine each month is a lot of money.  

You can sign up for 12 print issues for just £36.

One of the best things about this magazine is that for those of you who can’t afford the magazine’s print version, its available to view online for free.

If you would like to keep up to date with news about Happiful, you can check them out on Facebook or  Twitter and Instagram.

What I buy the magazine?

If I were going on holiday and wanted to purchase a magazine, I would buy this but because I don’t get paid much and I’m always online I would be more likely to read Happiful online.

You can pick up a copy in your local supermarket, order a print copy online or subscribe to our free digital e-mag: subscribe.happiful.com

Reviewing the Ion Sports Water Bottle

Picture of Ion 8 sports bottle

When I was sent the Ion8 Sports Water Bottle to test I was hoping that this water bottle wouldn’t leak when I put it into my boot bag, alongside a spare pair of trainers and a gym towel.

My first water bottle was a cheap Slazenger plastic bottle from Sports Direct which I purchased back in 2014 for Insanity Classes.

My second water bottle was one that my mum bought me for Christmas from Tesco.

The plastic carrier bit broke off that bottle just a few weeks after receiving it when I accidentally dropped it.

When receiving the Ion 8 sports water bottle my first impressions were that the bottle could do with being a bit bigger, but the bottle itself looked strong.

After using it for a month, I found that I could put it into my boot bag and it doesn’t leak. It comes in several colours (I have the frosted grey).

I’ve tested the bottle thoroughly in the gym, and it hasn’t leaked, the only two issues I have with the bottle are that I could do with a bigger bottle than 650ml as I drink a lot in the gym and I have to fill up the bottle more, and unfortunately, I dropped the bottle and a bit of the plastic where the lid locks broke off.

This needs to be made more robust as it’s a little flimsy.

However, the Ion8 sports water bottle has more plusses than minuses.

This includes a wide opening also allows refilling without spillage and is big enough for ice cubes or for fruit if you fancy a spring/summer smoothie.

*100% Leakproof BPA free water bottle

* Flips open with one hand and can lock closed for safety

* Vented, smooth liquid flow for rapid hydration

* It has a soft feel for grip and a carry strap (that is quite sturdy)

* Fits any cup holder or kid’s backpack

* The drinks bottle is dishwasher safe and suitable for hot or cold drinks

You can purchase the Ion8 sports water bottle from Amazon.

New Dri-fit Nike Gym gear

Nike Dri-fit black top

Before Christmas, I purchased some cool new Dri-fit Nike gym gear for my daily trips to the leisure centre.

As Nike had been sending me lots of 20% off sale emails, I finally caved in and decided to treat myself to some new gym wear because I didn’t have enough tops or trousers to wear.

The weather has been so wet recently, which means that the clothes aren’t getting washed and dried as frequently and I go to the gym six or seven days a week.

A few months before December, I had purchased some Nike Dri-fit trousers in the sale, and I love the fact that they dry quicker than my other gym trousers.

Yes, Nike Dri-fit is a bit more expensive than other sports brands.

However, if you are like me and would like to stay dry and comfortable in the gym instead of hot, sticky, and sweaty, you will pay a bit more for better comfort.

What is Dri-fit Nike Gear?
Nike Dri-FIT is a high-performance, microfiber, polyester fabric that moves sweat away from the body and to the fabric surface, where it evaporates.

As a result, Dri-FIT keeps athletes dry and comfortable. It’s also quicker to dry in wet weather.

Nike Power Legend Women’s Training Tights
The leggings keep me nice and warm when walking to and from the gym and when attending my HIIT classes outside in the winter.

However, they are a little bit too hot to wear in the gym, and I prefer wearing my lighter training leggings.

I thought that my legs would look like tree trunks in fitted leggings; however, this is not the case in these trousers.

Nike Dry Women’s Training Tank
I love this top because it’s light and not too hot or cold to wear to the gym and being a Dri-fit top it drys quick, so I’m not soaked in sweat when working out.

I prefer wearing tops without sleeves as I tend to sweat a lot when working out.

I got the top in a larger size because I’m not comfortable with my weight, so I like loose-fitting tops.

Nike Classic Padded Botanical Fresh Women’s Medium Support Sports Bra
I needed another sports bra because I only own 4, so I went for a medium support bra that fits well and is comfortable to wear to the gym and my HIIT classes. I wear support bras underneath my tops

Have you tried out Nike gym gear?

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